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		<title>By: Glee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2008 10:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As an adult I too am often asked this question by complete strangers and it always blows me away.  I love your response and I will use it next time.

I actually have a T shirt with &quot;Don&#039;t Ask&quot; on the front and &quot;or I&#039;ll bash ya&quot; on the back.  In Rundle Mall one day I was sitting having a break and noticed a man in a wheelchair looking at me and circling.  Eventually he came up and asked &quot;where did you get that tshirt?&quot;.  I said &quot;I don&#039;t have to tell you what it means do I?&quot;  he said &quot;no I get it and I want one&quot;.  It was a meeting of like minds and a wonderful moment.

and another time I was waiting to cross at the lights and noticed a man who was sitting having coffee at a footpath cafe looking at me and smiling and pointing me out to his partner.  I thought I must know him or vice versa so I went over.  He said he liked my tshirt.  I asked &quot;what do you think it means?&quot;  he said &quot;i spose it&#039;s that people ask you about your disability in public with no decent reason&quot;    YEP.  What an insightful abloid and an interaction that delighted us both!

Sometimes I make up a fantastic and exciting story about &quot;what&#039;s wrong with you&quot;.   I was born with Spinal Muscular Atrophy which is not at all &quot;sexy&quot;.  so I say I fell off while mountain climbing, skiing accident, shot in the war or somesuch.  It&#039;s fun for me cos their faces are so funny and their ignorant self serving curiosity so pathetic.  The  next time I do this I am going to then say &quot; that was all a big lie cos it&#039;s none of your bloody business so the jokes on you&quot;.

Jodie asked &quot;what is wrong with these people?&quot;  The thing wrong with them is that they believe that there is nothing wrong with them!!!  

cheers
Glee</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As an adult I too am often asked this question by complete strangers and it always blows me away.  I love your response and I will use it next time.</p>
<p>I actually have a T shirt with &#8220;Don&#8217;t Ask&#8221; on the front and &#8220;or I&#8217;ll bash ya&#8221; on the back.  In Rundle Mall one day I was sitting having a break and noticed a man in a wheelchair looking at me and circling.  Eventually he came up and asked &#8220;where did you get that tshirt?&#8221;.  I said &#8220;I don&#8217;t have to tell you what it means do I?&#8221;  he said &#8220;no I get it and I want one&#8221;.  It was a meeting of like minds and a wonderful moment.</p>
<p>and another time I was waiting to cross at the lights and noticed a man who was sitting having coffee at a footpath cafe looking at me and smiling and pointing me out to his partner.  I thought I must know him or vice versa so I went over.  He said he liked my tshirt.  I asked &#8220;what do you think it means?&#8221;  he said &#8220;i spose it&#8217;s that people ask you about your disability in public with no decent reason&#8221;    YEP.  What an insightful abloid and an interaction that delighted us both!</p>
<p>Sometimes I make up a fantastic and exciting story about &#8220;what&#8217;s wrong with you&#8221;.   I was born with Spinal Muscular Atrophy which is not at all &#8220;sexy&#8221;.  so I say I fell off while mountain climbing, skiing accident, shot in the war or somesuch.  It&#8217;s fun for me cos their faces are so funny and their ignorant self serving curiosity so pathetic.  The  next time I do this I am going to then say &#8221; that was all a big lie cos it&#8217;s none of your bloody business so the jokes on you&#8221;.</p>
<p>Jodie asked &#8220;what is wrong with these people?&#8221;  The thing wrong with them is that they believe that there is nothing wrong with them!!!  </p>
<p>cheers<br />
Glee</p>
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		<title>By: Jodie</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 12:12:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do hate that question also.  You have some great responses.  I may borrow them one day.  Another comment that drives me mad is &quot;Oh, is she tired?&quot;  I think they know she isn&#039;t tired, just another way of asking &quot;what is wrong with her?&quot; What is wrong with these people?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do hate that question also.  You have some great responses.  I may borrow them one day.  Another comment that drives me mad is &#8220;Oh, is she tired?&#8221;  I think they know she isn&#8217;t tired, just another way of asking &#8220;what is wrong with her?&#8221; What is wrong with these people?</p>
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